Don't Be Afraid To Live The Life Of Your Dreams

It's easy to continue to do things that make you unhappy just because you're caught up in the routine of doing them, despite how they make you feel.  A perfect example is staying in a job that doesn't fulfil your wants and aspirations, just because it's convenient.

I know it's easier said than done but it feels great to be brave enough to change your lifestyle and start doing more of the things that you want to do in life.  Please don't allow yourself to be pressured into living the kind of life that most people around you live, just because it's the 'normal' way of living. This is your life and you have the power and ability to live the life of your dreams. 

We all have dreams and in order to achieve them, we'll need to take risks. Although taking risks can be scary, it can also be thrilling and adds to the excitement of life. If you've always dreamt of living in a certain place, or working in a certain career, take that risk and start planning how you are going to make that change. Don't worry about what people around you think if you know that making the change will be healthy for you and will make you the happiest you've ever been.  

If you don’t feel confident enough to make big changes straight away, then you can start by making small ones. For example, if you want to start a new job, start researching the qualifications you will need in order to work in that position. Then you can take a step further and start searching for places that offer the opportunity to gain those qualifications. Then you can go even further by making a plan of how and when you can start taking those qualifications. After this, you can continue to do new things that take you steps closer to achieving your dream. Another example is if you've been wanting to move to a different country but you’re too nervous to, start researching the area you want to live in and the steps you'd need to take before moving there.

Actually doing things that take you closer to achieving your dreams allows you to accept that your dreams are becoming your reality and shows you that you can definitely achieve them.

I hope this post has helped you, please let me know if it has!

Love, Chey x

- Positive Thinking Wins -

Promoting Positivity: 5 Steps To Kick Start A Healthier You by Tara Stiles

Last year, I became more passionate about living a healthier lifestyle and I can definitely feel the great effects of this now. However, I still feel

like I have a long way to go in terms of getting healthier. That’s why I sighed with relief when I came across ‘5 Steps To Kick Start A Healthier You’ by Tara Stiles, I knew that I had to read it as soon as I saw the title of the article!

The article includes 5 tips on how to live a healthier lifestyle, from meditation to rule-making, all of which, I found very interesting and enlightening!

Click here to read the article, I hope you find it just as helpful as I have!

Love, Chey x

- Positive Thinking Wins –

 

Love Yourself!

Happy Valentine’s Day!

What’s your opinion on Valentine’s Day? Personally, even though I don’t make a big deal out of it, I do like that it’s a day that’s dedicated to spreading love and kindness to others. However, even though Valentine’s Day is traditionally known to be a day about showing love to your partner, I think that it’s just as important to show this love to yourself as well. Now of course, we don’t need to wait for Valentine’s Day to do this, this is something we can do every single day.

A lot of people talk about the importance of loving ourselves, which is great – but I’m sure that I can’t be the only person who has thought “Ok great, I’m going to start loving myself more! … but how?” Just saying that you’re going to love yourself more is simple, but when you think about what you can actually do to encourage this, it can become a lot more complicated. This might be because you’re just over-thinking it, like I was. I now understand that loving yourself is an on-going process that will progress throughout your life. Some days might be more challenging than others but that’s OK, it’s about the fact that you’re making the effort to pay attention to yourself and value the person that you are.

I believe that an important part of loving yourself is to get to know yourself. I like to consider that as people, we’re constantly developing and changing over time and it can be quite challenging to fully know who we are. However, everyone has different ideas of what it means to know themselves completely and whether it’s possible. In my view, knowing myself is about having a deep connection to my thoughts, emotions, behaviours and intentions in life.  What’s your perception of knowing yourself and do you think you know yourself completely?

I think that another important part of loving yourself is taking the time to fulfil your own wants and needs. It can be very easy to get caught up in everyday life and forget to dedicate time to yourself to do what you enjoy. However, I think that It’s crucial that you look after yourself as well as others, and remember that you deserve your time just as much as anybody else does.  Even if that means planning to dedicate a bit of time out of every day to go for a walk, eat your favourite meal, listen to your favourite music etc., this is a significant part of you valuing yourself and your importance, which I think is a huge part of loving yourself.

The final thing that I’ll talk about is the importance of looking to yourself for love instead of always looking to others. A lot of the time, when people don’t feel loved enough, they look for someone else to help fill that void for them. Is this something that you do or that you’ve done in the past? I definitely have.  I find it interesting that for so many people, our instant reaction to feeling a lack of love is to look for someone else to love us instead of looking back at ourselves for the love that we’re missing.  I think that depending on others to make you feel loved can be risky. Instead, thinking about why you don’t feel as loved as you’d like and working on addressing this can be more effective. Doing this can lead to you becoming more self-aware and appreciative, which also play a big part in loving yourself.

So, to end this post on a lovely note (< sorry, I had to!) I hope that you enjoy Valentine’s Day and you remember to show yourself and others an endless amount of love!

Love, Chey x

- Positive Thinking Wins -

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